Here are some boots on the ground reports from Staten Island.
...I walked on the rooftop of a house yesterday, I stepped on it because the debris that surrounded it was level with the rooftop. That’s what happened here on Staten Island.”
Congressman Michael Grimm concurred.
“I think this is an example of what infuriates people here on Staten Island,” he said. “Like Senator Lanza just said, we have people, people still in water. Families displaced, families wondering where their grandparents are. Are they at a shelter? Are they at a hospital? Or are they gone? That’s what we should be focusing on. I think it would be very misguided to have this marathon. I think that the people of Staten Island will see this, unfortunately…as another shot against them, that the City Hall is more worried about getting everything running again for Manhattan and making everything look like it’s back to normal. We’re not back to normal and we’re not going to be back to normal for a long time.”
read the rest here:
http://politicker.com/2012/11/staten-island-borough-president-dont-give-money-to-the-red-cross/

I just read a disturbing report from GLenn Beck's relief organization (yes he has one). Mercury One sent in Hurricane Sandy relief supplies via truck and via existing relief organizations to some of the victims of Sandy in Coney Island. Distrubution channels were to be through local churches. Here's part of what they reported.
The power is due to be off for another week or two and these people are trapped and, unlike us, to a large extent unprepared. It's anyone's guess how bad things will get, but at least these volunteer drivers and doanted supplies are lighting a candle in the darkness.
Informed, eyewitness or credible stories of heroism or lawlessness to confirm or deny my fears about a collapse situation for Sandy's victims would be appreciated.